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UNLATCHED
Designing for Emotional Authenticity in Online Dating

UNLATCHED
Designing for Emotional Authenticity

in Online Dating

UNLATCHED
Designing for Emotional Authenticity

in Online Dating

Exploring a dual-profile system that balances vulnerability with safety

Unlatched is a Toronto-based dating app built around honesty and emotional intelligence. I partnered with the founder to bring his dual-profile idea to life by leading the design for onboarding, the two-profile system, and the core profile-building experience. I led the research, UX, and UI design for this phase of the project. The concept is currently in development and moving toward launch.

TASK

End to End

CLIENT

Tom Colquhoun (CEO)

TIME LINE

7/1/25 - 8/8/25

FIGMA PROTOTYPE

The Challenge
Why this problem mattered and what made it complex.

Most dating apps make people perform. Profiles feel curated, shallow, and repetitive. Unlatched wanted people to build two profiles, one polished and one unfiltered, but most users already struggle to complete a single profile. The challenge was making the flow simple, guided, and emotionally safe so users would not feel overwhelmed. Emotional honesty supported this challenge, because people only share their real personality when the experience feels low pressure and in their control.

Research Highlights
What I learned from interviews, testing, and early concept work.

My research goal was to understand how comfortable people feel being vulnerable online and what helps or blocks them from completing profiles.

• People want to be authentic, but only when it feels safe and low pressure.
• Profiles blend together, so users want more depth and personality.
• Fun, emotionally aware prompts worked well, although bolder ones split testers.
• The dual-profile idea was easy for people to understand, but the flow still felt long in practice.
• Some people loved the unfiltered side, others avoided it completely, so flexibility mattered.

These insights guided a persona focused on comfort, clarity, and emotional expression. Fun prompts also lowered pressure and helped make the two-profile flow feel more approachable.

"I like the idea of being real, but not if it feels forced."
- Ruth

Key Insights That Shaped the Design
What I took from research and how it informed the solution.

• Users share more when they feel in control.
• Emotional intelligence works best when it feels playful, not heavy.
• Two profiles require simple pacing and clear transitions.
• Prompts should never push people into vulnerability.

HYPE PROFILE

Polished

Curated Photo

Light Prompts

Safe + Controlled

🔥 UNHINGED PROFILE 🔥

Unfiltered

Fun photo or meme

Bolder Prompts

Expressive + Real

What I Built
How I designed a guided onboarding flow focused on emotional safety.

I created a two-path onboarding system built around fun, clarity, and user control. Each profile included:

• One photo
• Fun personality prompts with a question-swap option
• A media moment (video, audio, or meme)
• Interest tags and a mood picker

Low-fi sketches helped test pacing. Mid-fi screens validated clarity and tone. The high-fi version added stronger profile contrast, clearer transitions, softer microcopy, and a final pop-up reminding users to review both sides before publishing.

Mid-Fi

Mid-Fi

Profile Creation

Early flow used to test pacing and whether users understood the two-profile concept.

Hype Profile

Initial polished profile layout used to validate clarity and ease of switching between the two modes.

Unhinged Profile

Rough structure that explored how to guide users through more vulnerable, expressive prompts.

Mid-Fi

Design System Foundations

Core Components
As the product direction became clearer, I created a small set of reusable UI components to support consistency and speed across the experience.

This wasn’t a full design system, but a lightweight foundation that helped me scale designs while keeping interactions familiar and emotionally approachable.

Hi-Fi

Design System Foundations

Core Components
As the product direction became clearer, I created a small set of reusable UI components to support consistency and speed across the experience.

This wasn’t a full design system, but a lightweight foundation that helped me scale designs while keeping interactions familiar and emotionally approachable.

Design System Foundations

Core Components
As the product direction became clearer, I created a small set of reusable UI components to support consistency and speed across the experience.

This wasn’t a full design system, but a lightweight foundation that helped me scale designs while keeping interactions familiar and emotionally approachable.

Hi-Fi

Hi-Fi

Profile Creation

Refined hierarchy and tone made the start of the flow feel lighter and easier to follow.

Hype Profile

Final polished profile with clearer structure and subtle cues that kept the experience confident but not performative.

Unhinged Profile

Final unfiltered profile design with improved microcopy and spacing to support emotional comfort.

Impact
What changed and how people responded.

Testing showed the updated flow was lighter and more expressive.
People said the experience felt more personality driven than a typical swipe app.
Most said they would now complete both profiles because the flow was fun, flexible, and less overwhelming.
The founder said the experience finally matched the original idea and lifted the playful spirit of the brand.

Next Steps
Where the product could go if expanded.

• Stronger safety, privacy, and reporting tools supported by AI driven detection
• Smarter matching based on emotional traits and comfort levels
• Better guided prompt selection
• Expanded media options
• Optional emotional intelligence conversation starters

Reflection
What I learned about designing for vulnerability.

This project taught me how pacing, tone, and microcopy shape emotional comfort. Building two profiles made me think deeply about how much vulnerability people are willing to share with strangers. Small details like prompt swapping and clear transitions made a big difference in helping people feel safe, curious, and excited instead of overwhelmed.

I learned that not everyone wants to be unfiltered, and that is okay. The goal was not to force honesty, but to give people choice, comfort, and control. That meant making emotional safety visible and building trust through the small moments.

This project reminded me that trust is not created in a single screen. It comes from the flow as a whole. Each iteration brought us closer to an experience where people felt comfortable being honest and excited to share.

Design Lessons
• Emotional safety must be visible, not implied
• Clarity beats cleverness
• Flexibility supports vulnerability
• Fun and control matter as much as the big idea

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